“We met the identical week I put my side view reverse up…”but she would eventually learn that his real name was James. “I viewed his profile but did not respond, due to the distance between us,” she says. Shortly thereafter, she took her profile down. Heather noticed another member of our site who, for her, stood out from the rest. His username was “Jiminy,” “Later in the year, I had a feeling I should give it one more try,” Heather recalls. Heather was cautiously sanguine from the start. “I had a feeling it would happen, due to my past experiences,” she says. “And I wasn’t having success black people dating when I went out… not for quite some time now.”
Heather hadn’t met a man who swept her off her feet. When Heather and her girlfriends would go out, she wasn’t conference marriageable guys. What attracted her to online dating was how it simplified the process. “It’s an easier, more convenient way of meeting and screening people, before actually going out with anyone,” she tells us. “Black people dating were not my first practice, but hopefully it will be my last!”
She met James, a good guy looking for a good woman. James was new to the black people dating online dating scene. Initially, he felt some reluctance to go through the whole process of profile-making and electronic letter with women he didn’t know. “I was hesitant at first, but glad I did not let that put a damper on things me from giving it a chance,” he says.
James describes Heather’s profile as “very detailed, and accurate.” Something about it really caught his eye. When Heather rejoined our site, he absolutely had to contact this woman. After typing out an email and hitting “send,” all he could do was wait…Heather picks up the story there. “The way he responded to what I wrote in my profile was what got my attention. We emailed back and forth, ended up exchanging numbers. We ongoing talking over the phone, and spoke every lone day after that.”
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So they did, and their first meeting went exceedingly well. Heather informs us that “he was the same amazing guy I had previously fallen for, only even better face-to-face. Our first date was perfect and I would not have changed anything about it.” Their connection was immediate, and strong. Both felt the brains that something special was unfolding here, even before laying eyes on each other in the real world. “I fell for him while we were talking over Skype, before we were ever together in person,” says Heather. “I was absolutely fanatical about him, in every way.”
James is in full agreement. “She was unerringly what I hoped she would be, and more,” he says. “It just felt right. We could have been anywhere and it would have been great, but I picked a good place to have our first real date!” I had immediately fallen for her as well,” says James. “I could see us making the relationship permanent someday. Not long after us starting talking, we knew we wanted to make plans to spend time together.”
Because of the miles that separated them, Heather and James decided to make a weekend of it. They were having so much fun, why stop now? “We had a first weekend together, rather than just a first date, which made it very special and something we will never forget,” she says.
James says they have “so much in common.” He was happily surprised by “her willingness to become a vegetarian because of me.” The duo felt extremely compatible with one another. Says Heather, “I didn’t have an exact type, other than certain similarities I wanted in a partner, and things we would both want in a relationship. James is it for me. He makes me happier than I have ever been!” He’s never been in a relationship like this one. “She is unlike anyone I have been with, because of the connection we have on the inside, as well as the outside,” James says.
Inspired by his feelings for Heather, James offers us a poetic perspective on it. “Love colors a black-and-white life with a rainbow of optimism, determination, sacrifice, comfort, laughter and contentment.”Their relationship reaches new heights every day. “I found a love that can last a lifetime and know, without a doubt, that he is my Right Fit,” Heather proclaims. “The one I am going to grow old with. Meeting James has changed my life in ways I could only dream about until now.”
James says that singles have to remember to take chances as if they’ve never been hurt before. “Don’t pass on giving it a real chance because it is something new or different, or because you had a past experience that didn’t turn out as you hoped,” he says. “You could be missing out on your accurate Fit and having lasting love and pleasure” So what can WE learn from their understanding? Heather pondered our question and came up with this advice for the members on our site. “Don’t try to pretend to be anyone you are not, inside or out. I poured my heart out and put it all out there: what I wanted, needed and expected in a connection, what I was willing to give in return, who I am as a person. This worked for me. It’s what drew him to my silhouette, above all in addition.”